live and let live

One day is all that is needed.
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:) sometimes I need to stop over-thinking things. que sara sara.
Kishore Mahbubani told proponents of Western democracy in the Asian Value Debates," Live and let live. If the United States is convinced that its systems of human rights and freedom of press are the best possible system for any society around the globe, let the virtues of these systems speak for themselves. If a social system has merit, it will fly on its own wings."

Similarly, life will speak for itself. The virtues and goodness of the course of life will speak for themselves and will fly on its own wings.
The link is created by me. I cannot do Philosophy modules because I will probably come up with stupid stuff instead of talking about Plato and Aristotle. haha.

beisidi told me before that I shouldn't worry about things that aren't happening yet or may not happen. As long as you do what's best during the situation either to mitigate or reduce the impact, you shouldn't worry.
Something which I'm still learning. It is such excessive worrying that can cause relationships to be over among people, cause unnecessary unhappiness, cause regretfulness and so on and so forth. Why believe in things that has no good?
at the same time, don't do stupid things which by itself will only serve to bring despair and you know it. Instead do stupid things if it is worth it by itself and bring joy, because you don't know what comes may, and if it turns bad its no one's fault, as opposed to the former.

So yesterday, I was sad about things which may not be happening or aren't happening yet or may not happen. It's redundant negativity.

There will come a point whereby we have to rise up and grow up against our wish. That day will come eventually, so why worry about it?
There will surely be days whereby friends are lost, either by drifting apart through time or through bad events that may happen, so why worry about it? just make sure right now, treasure them, reciprocate the love, keep in contact.
There will be times whereby one of your best friends may turn into mere acquaintance, just hello, bye and how are you. If the course of life takes its place that way, pray about it and move on because, be glad that this person left footprints in your life and shared memories which serves to be past joy and good lessons for the future.
There will be times, when a loved one has to leave. leave your life, or leave the world. For life's first breath will always end with the last. Why worry about something that is inevitable? The in betweens, the journey, these are more important.
As free human being, we have the choice in life-decisions, and God gave us that power to make our own decisions. God created Human Beings, not robots. (and thus, I do not believe in fate other than the fact that I believe in a God). But sometimes, when certain things, both good or bad, are meant to be, the final destination will still come anyway. What matters are the decisions you made and choose to do in between.

and I'm saying all these out of ambiguity, yet not just that, I'm saying all these because one day, this point of life may hit on you and you are forced to learn stuffs like these. you refering to anyone who come across this post. :)